frustrated

[Glenn at home]

Why is it so hard to get help/info on using Linux?
I have Debian.
I apparently need to recompile my kernel because Alsa cannot control my 
sound card, because Debian has hold of it, but I need to get Debian to not 
control it.
I have spent all day looking on the internet for help, and can find non on 
recompiling the kernel, some examples would be nice.
man pages are often useless for a beginner, as they are too cryptic.
Any help appreciated, as I am about ready to quit Linux.
Glenn